Couples Rapid Transformation Experience
Texas • Oregon • Washington• Online
For Relationships Feeling Stuck, Disconnected, or at a Crossroads
This experience is designed for couples and partners who are ready for meaningful movement in their relationship, especially if traditional weekly therapy has felt too slow, too surface-level, or like you keep having the same conversations without real change.
You may be a good fit if your relationship feels stuck in cycles of conflict, emotional disconnection, resentment, shutdown, betrayal, intimacy struggles, or constant misunderstanding. Maybe you love each other but no longer feel emotionally safe, close, desired, or connected in the way you want to.
This work can be especially supportive for couples and partners:
Recovering from infidelity, betrayal, secrecy, or broken trust
Feeling more like roommates, co-parents, or people managing life together than actual partners
Navigating sexual disconnection, desire differences, intimacy struggles, compulsive behaviors, or shame around sex and vulnerability
Carrying unresolved trauma, attachment wounds, grief, moral injury, or nervous system patterns impacting the relationship
In high-stress careers or environments where burnout, hypervigilance, or emotional exhaustion have taken a toll on connection
Facing major relationship decisions around commitment, marriage, separation, non-monogamy, parenting, relocation, or whether repair is still possible
I work with LGBTQIA2S+ relationships, nontraditional relationship structures, consensually non-monogamous relationships, interracial and intercultural couples, neurodiverse partnerships, and relationships navigating identity, sexuality, intimacy, and relational repair in all forms.
Most couples are not “broken.” They’re stuck in protective patterns that once helped them survive individually but are now creating pain, distance, and disconnection between them. This work is about helping you understand those patterns, slow them down, and begin relating to each other differently.
If you’ve already spent months, or years, having the same fight in different forms, you already know the problem is not just communication.
Most relationships are not struggling because people forgot to use better wording. They’re struggling because underneath the conflict are attachment wounds, resentment, emotional shutdown, betrayal, nervous system reactivity, unmet needs, avoidance, intimacy struggles, power dynamics, and years of protective patterns neither person fully knows how to get out of.
And honestly? Fifty-minute sessions are often not enough space to meaningfully work through that. By the time both people settle in, explain the latest conflict, and stop reacting to each other, the session is over.
This work is different.
Extended sessions create enough space to slow the cycle down, get underneath what’s really happening, and begin changing the emotional and relational patterns keeping you stuck. Not just talking about them intellectually — actually experiencing each other differently in real time.
My work integrates Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), the Gottman Method, Relational Life Therapy (RLT), EMDR, ART, Brainspotting, and other trauma-informed somatic approaches. That means we’re working with both the relationship dynamic and the nervous systems underneath it. We address communication, conflict, intimacy, accountability, attachment wounds, trauma responses, resentment, and the relational patterns both people are contributing to, with honesty, depth, and compassion.
For couples who feel uncertain about whether the relationship can or should continue, I also offer Discernment Counseling. This is not couples therapy focused on fixing the relationship at all costs. It’s a structured process designed to help partners gain clarity around whether they want to repair the relationship intentionally, move toward separation thoughtfully, or better understand what has happened before making major decisions. It can be especially helpful when one partner feels “out” while the other still wants to work on things, or when couples feel stuck between staying and leaving.
Whether you’re trying to repair after betrayal, reconnect emotionally or sexually, stop the constant conflict, navigate a major relationship decision, or determine whether healing together is possible, this work is designed to create meaningful movement, not endless therapy that never gets to the root of what’s happening.
How Do You Know If This Work Is Right for Your Relationship?
You do not have to feel completely certain, hopeful, or “ready” before starting. Most couples arrive feeling exhausted, disconnected, guarded, overwhelmed, or stuck in the same painful cycle they can’t seem to get out of on their own.
This work may be a good fit if both people are willing to engage honestly in the process even if one partner feels more hopeful or invested than the other right now. It’s designed for relationships wanting to move beyond surface-level communication fixes and get underneath the deeper patterns driving conflict, emotional disconnection, resentment, shutdown, betrayal, intimacy struggles, or repeated relational pain.
This process can also be especially helpful for couples and partners navigating major relationship decisions whether that’s rebuilding after betrayal, deepening commitment, navigating non-monogamy, deciding whether to stay together, or determining whether repair is possible at all.
For relationships where one person feels uncertain about continuing while the other wants to work on things, Discernment Counseling can help create clarity without forcing immediate decisions or pushing the relationship in either direction.
Because this work is deeper and more focused than traditional weekly therapy, it requires a willingness to slow down, have honest conversations, and actively engage in the process. My role is to help guide that work with structure, honesty, and emotional safety so meaningful change can actually happen.
What Makes This Different From Traditional Couples Therapy?
One-Day Couples Healing Immersion
This personalized couples healing immersion is designed for partners seeking deeper, more focused relational work beyond the limitations of traditional weekly therapy. Many couples find that 50-minute sessions often leave them feeling like they are just beginning to access the deeper layers of communication, conflict, intimacy, attachment wounds, or relational patterns before time runs out.
A healing immersion creates the space, continuity, and therapeutic depth needed to slow reactive cycles down, strengthen emotional safety, rebuild trust, deepen intimacy, and work through patterns in a more meaningful and sustained way.
While labeled as a “one-day” immersion, the healing process itself unfolds over several weeks through preparation, immersive relational work, and post-immersion integration.
What’s Included
90-Minute Pre-Immersion Session
A preparation session focused on clarifying relationship goals, identifying recurring patterns and obstacles, exploring attachment dynamics, strengthening nervous system regulation, and creating a personalized roadmap for your healing experience together.
4-Hour Customized Couples Healing Experience
A focused, client-centered immersion designed to help couples move beyond surface-level communication and into deeper relational understanding, emotional repair, accountability, intimacy, and connection.
Depending on your relationship’s unique needs and goals, your immersion may integrate:
Discernment Counseling
Sex Therapy
Relational Life Therapy (RLT)
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for Couples
Gottman Method Therapy
Brainspotting with Couples
Somatic & Attachment-Focused EMDR with Couples
Nervous system and attachment-focused interventions
RYT-200 informed yoga and mindfulness practices for couples
Each experience is thoughtfully tailored to help address the emotional, relational, physiological, and attachment-based dynamics contributing to conflict, disconnection, intimacy struggles, betrayal, communication difficulties, or feeling stuck in painful relational cycles.
60-Minute Post-Immersion Integration Session
A follow-up session approximately 2–4 weeks later to process insights, reflect on relational and nervous system shifts, strengthen integration, and support continued growth and connection moving forward.
Additional Included Support
Personalized relationship assessments and screening tools
Individualized couples workbook and therapeutic resources
Clinical preparation and treatment planning completed outside of session time
Personalized relational treatment planning and case conceptualization
Important Clarification About Time & Structure
The “one-day” immersion title refers specifically to the day of the immersive therapeutic experience itself. The full process unfolds over several weeks and includes preparation, assessment review, treatment planning, integration support, and follow-up care.
In addition to face-to-face session hours, I independently spend additional clinical time reviewing relationship dynamics, attachment patterns, goals, nervous system responses, and assessment information in order to thoughtfully tailor the experience to your relationship’s unique needs.
Investment
Weekday Immersion (Friday): $2,100
Weekend Immersion (Saturday–Sunday): $2,500
Availability is limited and offered through consultation and application only.
Two-Day Couples Healing Immersion
This extended couples healing immersion is designed for partners seeking deeper, more sustained relational work for chronic conflict cycles, attachment wounds, betrayal, emotional disconnection, intimacy struggles, communication breakdowns, or relational patterns that need more time, depth, and nervous system support than traditional weekly therapy often allows.
Many couples find themselves repeating the same conversations, the same arguments, and the same painful dynamics while never fully getting underneath what is actually driving them. A multi-day immersion creates the space to slow those cycles down, move beyond surface-level communication, and work at the deeper emotional, relational, and physiological layers shaping the relationship.
While labeled as a “two-day” immersion, the healing process itself unfolds over several weeks through preparation, immersive relational work, integration, and continued reflection.
What’s Included
90-Minute Pre-Immersion Session
A preparation session focused on clarifying relationship goals, identifying recurring patterns and obstacles, exploring attachment dynamics, strengthening nervous system regulation, and creating a personalized roadmap for your healing experience together.
Two 4-Hour Customized Couples Healing Experiences
Two focused, client-centered immersion sessions integrating advanced, evidence-based relational and nervous system-focused approaches tailored specifically to your relationship’s needs, patterns, and goals.
Depending on your relationship’s unique dynamics, the immersion may integrate:
Discernment Counseling
Couples Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP)
Sex Therapy
Relational Life Therapy (RLT)
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for Couples
Gottman Method Therapy
Brainspotting with Couples
Somatic & Attachment-Focused EMDR with Couples
Nervous system and attachment-focused interventions
RYT-200 informed yoga and mindfulness practices for couples
This work is designed to help couples move beyond defensiveness, shutdown, resentment, or survival-based relational patterns and toward greater emotional safety, accountability, repair, intimacy, trust, and connection.
60-Minute Post-Immersion Integration Session
A follow-up session approximately 2–4 weeks later to process insights, reflect on emotional and relational shifts, support integration, and discuss continued growth and next steps moving forward.
Additional Included Support
Personalized relationship assessments and screening tools
Individualized couples workbook and therapeutic resources
Clinical preparation and treatment planning completed outside of session time
Personalized relational treatment planning and case conceptualization
Important Clarification About Time & Structure
The “two-day” immersion title refers specifically to the two immersive therapy days themselves. The full healing process unfolds over several weeks and includes preparation, assessment review, treatment planning, integration support, and follow-up care.
In addition to face-to-face session hours, I independently spend additional clinical time reviewing relationship dynamics, attachment patterns, nervous system responses, goals, and assessment information in order to thoughtfully tailor the immersion experience to your relationship’s unique needs.
Investment
Weekday Immersion: $3,900
Weekend Immersion: $4,300
Availability is limited and offered through consultation and application only.
Three-Day Couples Healing Immersion
This multi-day couples healing immersion is designed for partners seeking deeper, more immersive relational work for chronic conflict, betrayal trauma, attachment wounds, emotional disconnection, intimacy struggles, nervous system dysregulation, or long-standing relational patterns that require more time, support, pacing, and integration than traditional weekly therapy can often provide.
Many couples find themselves stuck repeating the same cycles — communication breakdowns, defensiveness, shutdown, resentment, emotional distance, or feeling more like roommates than partners — while never fully reaching the deeper layers underneath those patterns. A three-day immersion creates the space to move beyond crisis management and surface-level conversations into meaningful relational repair, emotional safety, and deeper connection.
While labeled as a “three-day” immersion, the healing process itself unfolds over several weeks through preparation, immersive relational work, integration, and continued reflection.
What’s Included
90-Minute Pre-Immersion Session
A preparation session focused on clarifying relationship goals, identifying recurring patterns and obstacles, exploring attachment dynamics, strengthening nervous system regulation, and creating a personalized therapeutic roadmap for your healing experience together.
Three 4-Hour Customized Couples Healing Experiences
Three focused, client-centered immersion sessions integrating advanced, evidence-based relational and nervous system-focused approaches thoughtfully tailored to your relationship’s emotional, relational, physiological, and attachment-based needs.
Depending on your relationship’s unique dynamics and goals, the immersion may integrate:
Discernment Counseling
Couples Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP)
Sex Therapy
Relational Life Therapy (RLT)
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for Couples
Gottman Method Therapy
Brainspotting with Couples
Somatic & Attachment-Focused EMDR with Couples
Nervous system and attachment-focused interventions
RYT-200 informed yoga and mindfulness practices for couples
This immersive work is designed to help couples move beyond survival-based relationship patterns and toward deeper emotional connection, accountability, intimacy, trust, repair, communication, and nervous system safety within the relationship.
60-Minute Post-Immersion Integration Session
A follow-up session approximately 2–4 weeks later to process insights, reflect on relational and nervous system shifts, strengthen integration, and support continued growth and next steps moving forward.
Additional Included Support
Personalized relationship assessments and screening tools
Individualized couples workbook and therapeutic resources
Clinical preparation and treatment planning completed outside of session time
Personalized relational treatment planning and case conceptualization
Important Clarification About Time & Structure
The “three-day” immersion title refers specifically to the three immersive therapy days themselves. The overall healing process extends beyond those days and includes preparation, assessment review, individualized treatment planning, integration support, and follow-up care over several weeks.
In addition to face-to-face session hours, I independently spend additional clinical time reviewing relationship history, attachment dynamics, nervous system responses, assessments, and therapeutic goals to create a highly personalized immersion experience tailored specifically to your relationship.
Investment
Weekday Immersion: $4,500
Weekend Immersion: $5,400
Availability is limited and offered through consultation and application only.
FAQs
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Absolutely. Many of my weekly couples choose to schedule a Rapid Transformation Experience when they want to make a concentrated leap forward whether they’re preparing for a big life decision, working through a stuck point, or simply wanting to deepen their connection more quickly.
For current clients, intensives are available in modified formats and with adjusted pricing, since we’ve already built a foundation together. This means we can move into deeper work more quickly, customize the structure around your ongoing therapy plan, and integrate what we accomplish in the intensive into your regular weekly sessions for lasting results.
If you’re curious whether adding a Rapid Transformation Experience to your current work is the right next step, we can talk about your goals, the timing, and what format would best fit your relationship.
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It depends on your goals and what your relationship needs right now.
Some couples choose to start with a Rapid Transformation Experience because it allows them to make significant progress quickly addressing core patterns, repairing trust, and learning practical tools they can begin using immediately. This can be especially helpful if you’re facing a big decision, are in a high-stress season, or feel like you can’t wait months to see meaningful change. After the intensive, some couples continue with regular sessions to deepen and maintain the progress they’ve made.
Other couples begin with weekly therapy to build a foundation and gradually work toward deeper topics. Later, they add a Rapid Transformation Experience to break through stuck points or accelerate growth. In these cases, the intensive builds on the trust and understanding we’ve already developed together.
Both paths work it’s really about your timeline, your comfort level, and how quickly you want to move toward change. We can talk through the options during a consultation to help you decide which starting point will serve you best.
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Yes. Some couples come to a Rapid Transformation Experience while continuing their work with a primary therapist. You may feel that you’ve made progress gaining insight, understanding your patterns, and building some tools yet something deeper still feels stuck. Perhaps you can name the issues, but your nervous systems and emotional patterns haven’t shifted enough to create lasting change.
A Couples Rapid Transformation Experience can serve as adjunct therapy, giving you and your partner the space for concentrated, experiential work that addresses the body-based, attachment, and relational layers often left untouched in traditional talk therapy. This isn’t about replacing your current therapist it’s about complementing and accelerating the work you’re already doing.
During your initial consultation, we’ll discuss your current therapy, your goals for the intensive, and the best format to integrate this experience alongside your ongoing work. With your consent, I can also collaborate with your primary therapist to ensure the intensive supports and aligns with your overall treatment.
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Choosing the right intensive depends on your goals, timeline, and how deeply you want to dive into the work together. Each package offers a powerful opportunity for change what varies is the depth, pace, and amount of time we spend in the room together.
Half-Day Intensive — Best for focused, short-term goals
Choose this if you:
Want to work on a specific issue such as a recent fight, a decision you need to make, or a one-time rupture
Are looking for a boost in communication and connection without committing to a longer format right now
Want a way to try the Rapid Transformation Experience before committing to a multi-day
Need help navigating an upcoming commitment or big decision like marriage, moving in together, or relocation
Are already in weekly couples therapy and want a complementary deep-dive session to accelerate your progress
3-Day Weekday Intensive — Best for deep repair and rebuilding
Choose this if you:
Have long-standing patterns of conflict or disconnection you haven’t been able to shift in weekly therapy
Are working to rebuild trust after betrayal and need a structured, extended space to do so
Want to reignite intimacy and emotional closeness while learning practical tools you can take home
Are processing shared trauma, moral injury, or service-related stress that impacts your relationship
Can take time during the week for a focused reset
3-Day Weekend Intensive — Best for immersive, high-impact work with minimal weekday disruption
Choose this if you:
Have complex relational histories, layered betrayal, or chronic disconnection that require more time to unpack and heal
Want the benefits of the 3-day weekday format but need to fit it into a Friday–Sunday schedule
Are traveling from out of town or want to pair your intensive with a weekend away
Are ready to combine emotional repair with a restorative experience time to work, then time to rest and reconnect outside of session
Not sure which is best for you?
During your consultation, we’ll explore your relationship history, your goals, and your practical considerations. Together, we’ll choose the format that gives you the best chance for the transformation you’re seeking.